Three
examples of conspicuous consumption are dealt in this chapter-
Marriages, funerals, dwellings and luxury vehicles.
Cards
Camera Costumes and Catering
We
have often come across the expression “Marriages are made in
heaven”. Today while attending marriage ceremonies I get the
feeling that I am standing right in the middle of a cinema set or
studio. More than marriages, the ceremonies’ focus has now become
on four ‘C’s- Cards, cameras, costumes and catering. By a simple
observation of the four ‘C’s we can understand the milieu of the
present society.
Different
types of wedding cards are available in the market which varies in
shape, size, texture and design. In earlier times while selecting a
wedding card people checked the weight of the card to ensure that the
postage charges won’t cross the threshold of what one can afford.
However, today people check how colourful, heavy and fancy the
wedding invitation is, blatantly disregarding the fact that the
ultimate destination of the card is the trash can.
Cameras
and corollary gadgets have come to occupy the central stage of
wedding functions today. Lights, cranes and other accompanying
equipment virtually block the view of guests at a wedding. Again,
similar to the fate of the cards, the over-the-top wedding
photo-shoot and videography which record the ceremony event by event
will be watched by very few, mostly the immediate family members of
the groom and bride. Even worse is the direction. Today marriages are
often directed and controlled by cameramen and videographers. These
very people decide what the groom, bride and guests should do. The
videographers are there to capture the moments of the ceremony
without spoiling the decorum of the function not the other way
around. There have been instances where these ‘directors’ of the
wedding movies were taken by the newly married couple along with them
to video graph their honeymoon.
Wedding
dresses is another area where people spend a huge amount of money
lavishly- all this for just a single day. Often one has witnessed
beautiful girls turned into the most miserable-looking creatures by
the magic wand of beauticians. At weddings one can see beautiful
girls with wall putty all over their face and decorated with gold
from head to toe making them look like elephants at Trissur pooram
festival. Also, why so many dishes for a simple wedding? Tonnes of
food are wasted after each wedding in Kerala. Makes you wonder if
people are nowadays invited for wedding or for participating in a
food fest. Often more than eating, people taste everything and eat
nothing.
Funerals
Funeral
services in earlier times in Kerala society were characterised by
rituals and prayers among other things. Nowadays, more than rituals,
the emphasis seems to be on showing how rich one is. Large sized
pictures of the deceased in newspapers, air conditioned, specially
designed hearse vehicles to carry the dead, live streaming of the
rituals and distribution of posters carrying the pictures of the
deceased seem to be the latest trend of funeraldom. Apart from these,
newspaper ads appear soon after the funeral thanking everyone for
participating in the solemnities and making the same a 'grand
success'.
There
are several indispensible items that are necessary to conduct a
funeral service in an ideal way. First among them is a mobile
mortuary. Soon after one is dead the immediate query is regarding the
availability of mobile mortuary. With the arrival of mobile mortuary
we have successfully commenced ‘cry day’- where an entire day is
spent by people sitting near the corpse, watching, and visitors
paying homage to the dead. Mobile mortuary has turned out to the best
innovation that enables man to mourn for the dead along with the
dead. Apart from this, mobile mortuary has become a status symbol for
many of us. In future we may witness decorated and designed mobile
mortuaries which will be priced differently.
For
some folks a grant advertisement would definitely help in the
deceased to acquire moksha. The notification announcing the death in
newspaper itself has become an indicative of one’s status. For some
people giving a large size newspaper advertisement carrying the
portrait of the deceased is a prestige issue.
A
disciple asked Jesus Christ once “Lord let me go and bury my father
first”. But Jesus replied “You follow me, and let the dead bury
their own dead”. (Matthew 8:22).People are getting busy as time
advances. At the same time the length of funeral services keeps on
increasing along with the pomp associated with the same. People are
sad when their dear ones are lost especially when they are lost
through a tragedy, but the grandiose functions are not something that
the deceased might have wanted.
Funerals
nowadays serve another purpose of increasing social solidarity. It
has become a place where people meet each other after a long time.
Crying and mourning are nowadays meant to be only for the immediate
relatives of the deceased. For others these functions are no more
than a place to meet and talk and for some others it is just a waste
of time.
Dwellings,
Luxury vehicles
Dwellings
in Kerala appears to be an area where people are willing to spent
enormous amount of money wastefully. Often I have noticed huge
dwellings constructed without anyone staying in it. This is the most
manifest form of conspicuous consumption in god’s own country.
Why
are residences so big?
While
traveling through the countryside of Kerala people come across huge
dwellings with luxury cars parked in front of it. Besides these cars
and houses, public roads, buildings, government offices and
public spaces are in the most pitiful state of affairs. In Kerala we
only have individual prosperity. Individual prosperity has led to
increased consumption and increased standard of living and
consequently to conspicuous consumption. We are the only state in
India where poverty is inconspicuous. In fact we are not poor but the
very transitional nature of our society is making us myopic. In a
house where there are only a few to live what’s the point in having
so many rooms? The reason is that we construct houses to show others
that we have money and often forget the fact that dwellings are for
shelter. With the sudden rush of money people consume more,
often in an extravagant manner and we often invest in wrong places.
More than considering houses as a place to live and giving prominence
to interior designing, many are interested in making homes with
beautiful frontage and view conveniently forgetting the fact that it
is ultimately for the wellness of its residents.
Luxury
vehicles
Having
a posh vehicle is something every Keralite dreams of. To be frank,
considering the quality of our roads, it has become a requisite if
you want to travel comfortably on the roads of Kerala. Owning a
vehicle without using the same has become a norm in Kerala.
Often while walking through the beautiful countryside I have seen
cars in front of houses lying idle. More than its utilitarian value
people are looking at cars as a status symbol.
With
increased disposable income, people have started investing in all the
wrong things and value money more than anything else. Economic
considerations will begin to override all other factors and
consumerism will begin to pave the way to hedonism…